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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. taken from xuting's blog. it's meaningful. and yeap. it definitely remind me of the quote there are times when one's life appear to be a stage. people come, people go, some people come to go, & go with no intent of return. When they return, they return as one's past, a past that would make you feel that the present is false. hmm. actually i'm not much against of people who walk past/into my life. but the hateful part, sometimes they would just left w/o a goodbye. it's like, all people are just like some rest stop? people walk by, bursh by but never sit down to have a break some did, but left, with at least the thought of coming back. while some, just left and never come back again true, sometimes people stop by is be'cos some things are needed to be done/fulfilled/accomplished. but for whatever the reason is, when it's all done, they'll have to leave. not all actually. some can choose to stay but mostly would just left. sometimes, wouldn't you find yourself being used? i dont deny, people everyday might be using each other. for the beneficial of self, others, good, bad. some people just walk into your life and then left w/o a word? for their purpose/motive/selfishness/foolishness/unawareness or idk what reasons? it lasted only for a season. short term happiness. long term memory. you know, it so remind me of what tbt said to me. some long time ago. hahaha. ehh. i shouldn't be raking up the past.
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